New house: an update

Monday, September 15, 2014

Never did I think that when my Detroit-Shoreway townhouse sold and I moved into CK's apartment in Brooklyn that I would be sitting in the same aforementioned apartment typing this blog post almost a year later.

I haven't talked much about the struggle that CK and I have had finding a house on this blog because, quite frankly, it's been too painful, stressful and miserable.

I didn't realize how much the idea of moving to the south suburbs would affect me. I can be honest and say I wanted nothing to do with it. I want to stay in Cleveland proper, close to the lake, close to my friends, closer to the life that I've made for myself the past eight years in this fantastic city I call home. Not the 'burbs, ugh.

But when I met (and married) CK I was, by proxy, agreeing to move closer to where my step-daughter's mom decided to buy a house and where the kiddo goes to school.

I agreed kicking and screaming though.

I'm self aware enough to say that I'm still kicking and screaming about this proposed move even though we're under contract on a house I'm lukewarm on.

I know I'll grow to love our new home because my family will be there, but I can't help but feel like I'm losing my Cleveland identity because of decisions that weren't my own.

Are these feelings selfish? Perhaps, probably. But it doesn't mean they aren't real, that they aren't mine.

I'm a recovering control freak, I was a single business woman until I was 30. I made my own decisions and did what I wanted to. Now I'm a wife, who can generally still do what she wants to, except for that whole buy a home in my preferred community thing.

It's time to get over it. 

The outlook isn't promising for me to live where I'd prefer, but I suppose that's okay because I have my family. They are the ones who are going to get me through this transition. I'm doing it for them, not for me. I'm going to adjust to my new commute, to the south suburbs, to the new house we're buying.

I'm going to look to our promising future and things like getting my belongings out of storage, moving into a house instead of a 700 square foot apartment and FINALLY being able to entertain again. I can't wait.

So, to Independence we go. As far as locations between Westlake (where I work) and Fairlawn (where the kiddo goes to school) we couldn't have a better compromise. It's a fantastic community that I'm excited to be a part of and I can still be in Downtown Cleveland in 10 minutes - BOOM!

This blog has always been my little slice of the internet, a place that I can be me. I tend to blog less when I'm down in the dumps, as I try to keep this place as positive as possible, so hopefully once the chains of apartment living are off I'll feel the urge to write more.

One can only hope.

So here's to new beginnings and walking up and down these 105-year-old backdoor stairs thousands of times in good health and happiness.




August Shenanigans

Friday, August 29, 2014

Man, this summer has been fantastic. I can't believe it's Labor Day Weekend all ready. 

How the heck did that happen? Well, let's look at some photos from the last month and try to piece it all together.

Interested in hearing the loudest screams and squeals you've ever heard? Surprise your step-daughter on her 7th birthday with a trip to Cedar Point. The kiddo had the best time ever, conquered new roller coasters like the Gemini (the real one not the photo-op one) and ate the biggest snow cone I've ever seen. Making memories at Cedar Point is one of my favorite pastimes.

Marina at Westlake Flex Friday with great friends turned into Wesley Bright and the Hi-Lites at The Beachland Ballroom. Dock drinks + Colleen, me and Alana + Me and CK

Canton family fun = cousins, swimming and cake, lots of cake.

Apparently I'm an equal opportunity hydration professional. From my new favorite anytime drink, Nooma, to tequila cocktails at Urban Farmer to a Mike's Hard buffet at the marina. Stay thirsty my friends.

Yep, just what I thought, a chock full of fun August.

Enjoy your long holiday weekend, kids. Stay safe out there!

Westin + Urban Farmer Cleveland

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Recently, CK and I had the opportunity to spend a lovely evening at the new Westin Cleveland Downtown Hotel property including a night in swanky suite and dinner at Urban Farmer - oh, what a treat it was.

First impression? It didn't feel like I was in Cleveland. Second impression? I was in Cleveland (cue smiling, happy staff, reasonable prices and plenty of stunning Downtown Cleveland views) and it was FANTASTIC.

There's local art throughout the hotel space curated by LAND Studio and Epstein Design Partners, gorgeous interiors with modern amenities and an overall attention to detail that one has come to expect from the Westin brand.

The signature Westin green wall + a deconstructed chandelier, chandelier + art in the form of a giant head made of slices of tree trunks and sticks + hotel check-in lobby intriguing floor tile work

Once we completed the seamless check-in process we explored our spacious club-level suite and made our way to the club lounge for a happy hour cocktail and bite to eat.


Lake Erie view from the club lounge + my handsome husband, CK, helping himself to a cocktail + the appetizer spread, all of which was scrumptious and paired perfectly with our beverage options

After cocktails and snacks in the lounge, the group, including fellow blogger Courtney, her husband and Westin general manager Alan and his lovely wife, headed to Urban Farmer Steakhouse

Oh, Urban Farmer, how I love thee.

I've been to a fair share of steakhouses in my day, the dark interior, the old school men's club feel, the stuffy service. Urban Farmer Cleveland is not that, and in my humble opinion, that's a good thing.

It's a Cleveland steakhouse revolution, guys! It's farm-to-table centric, appeals to it's new Ohio patrons, serves up a fantastic cut of meat and I'm still dreaming about the cornbread.


A feel of the Urban Farmer brand from their menu suite and fashionable interior seating options (this place is huge). The finishes are spectacular.

I could easily share 20+ more food and cocktail photos, we ate and drank so well during our evening at Urban Farmer. These are some of my favorites though: shrimp seasoned to perfection, table side cheese presentation, prime beef tartare, American Gothic cocktail and 24oz Ohio Proud bone-in ribeye with candied bacon addition.

Being a Westin Ambassador I was granted an unforgettable experience in my beloved Downtown Cleveland - and I'm not just saying that because I've partnered with the organization. I'm saying it because it's a top notch hotel and restaurant and we're lucky that they have decided to make a home in the CLE.

Man, these photos are making me want to go back, good thing I have a happy hour planned a Urban Farmer next week!

Happy Wednesday, kids.


SPIN FOR DIN

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

On more than one occasion I've stated that I "detox to retox," which basically means, I spin my butt off at Psycle (detox) then enjoy my life as a bubbles and food aficionado (retox).

Life is a balance, people.

Similarly, there's a fantastic benefit happening on Sunday, August 24 at Crocker Park called SPIN FOR DIN. Same detox/retox idea but for a way more worthy cause, the Hunger Network of Greater Cleveland.



My friends at Psycle are bringing the indoor cycling experience to an outdoor setting at Crocker Park in Westlake. With 4 classes to choose from, including one with a live DJ, and all proceeds benefiting the Hunger Network, why wouldn't you want to SPIN FOR DIN?

My girl Alana and I are all signed up for Jen's class at 10:30am and bikes are filling up fast reserve yours ASAP. Sign-up online here under the "events" tab to get in on the fun, blow the roof off of Crocker Park and help do our part to reduce hunger in our community.

Hope to see you on a bike on Sunday, August 24!

Going out in Tremont is Tasty

Thursday, July 24, 2014

Aside from a SOLO OC stop, I spent the majority of this past weekend in Tremont and it was fantastic. 
 
Let's start with our Saturday trip to Platform Beer Co. which can be described in two words: simply fantastic. There's a great urban feel, bar games, open air and a rotation of food trucks and local restaurants providing sustenance.

What's ironic about my calling a beer only bar fantastic is that, gulp, I don't like beer. Well, let's say I used to not like beer... I'm at the point where I can publicly acknowledge that fruity ones are growing on me. Think summer shandy, think raspberry, think cherry. 

Fact: this wine, bubbles and bourbon only gal has probably had more beer in the last three months than I've had in the last ten years.

Platform Beer Co. logo/mural + Taps upon taps and beers upon beers + Hotz's Cafe in Tremont women's bathroom accessories.... lotion, hairspray, mints and panty liners + Super Driggs + Super Ahmed

Sunday brought one of my favorite days of the summer: Taste of Tremont. The 12th annual event always makes for an awesome Sunday Funday. Thanks to our friend DBLB we had a swanky Tremont townhouse to pre-party with mimosas, music and meat and cheese from the West Side Market

I'm pretty sure we didn't technically venture to ToT until 5pm when we finally made our way to the Treehouse to see The Boys From County Hell. The Treehouse patio was the place to be - friends were everywhere!

It's my blog so I suppose I'm allowed to share a quad of "me and my friends" pics on the Treehouse patio, right? Husband and wife + Plum and Muffin 4eva + Me and Renee being fab outside of work (we sit next to each other at the office) + Me and my long lost favorite Greek blogger friend Cleveland Frowns

The patio scene at Treehouse + The patio scene at DBLB's + AJP, CK and Muffin

Please don't ever end, summer, I'm having WAY TOO MUCH FUN. This really is CLE.

Happy Thursday, kids.